The Goonette Network

Eventually, you’ll get bored of gooning by yourself. As you become more and more experienced as a goonette, you may find yourself open to the possibility of gooning with a like-minded girl. This is a huge revelation: our whole lives we’ve been taught masturbation is shameful and something we should keep hidden. This is especially true for girls. Realizing that masturbating is normal and healthy, and doing it with someone else might lead to greater arousal and more pleasure, is successfully overcoming a lifetime of conditioning. Once you’re there, the desire to find a fap-partner will be intense. Be patient! Not every girl has yet reached the same level of enlightenment as you. You won’t likely find one right away, and it may take a significant amount of time before you do.

STARTING OUT

Finding a partner, even just to chat with, can be difficult.

Start on websites like BDSMLR or tinder and begin chatting with other goonettes. If they are open to talking, discuss porn and trade pics, gifs, and vids that turn you on. Have a group of girls you are comfortable being sexual with. It’s preparation for moving to the next step.

AMPING UP 

Discussing fantasies with another person can be a huge turn on.

Once you have established your network of willing and trustworthy goonettes, let them know you are open to rubbing together; be it via phone sex, facetime, or some other way. Be ready for rejection, though. Remember, not everyone has realized social masturbation is harmless fun. It may take some of your goonette contacts years before they are willing to take the next step with you. Be kind and supportive. Enjoy the experiences you have.

THE REAL DEAL

Goonettes need to stick together! Be kind and courteous, even if you don't match with your partner. 

The ultimate goal is to have a friend you can fap with in person, the two of you gooning out on the same couch at the same time to the same porn. In our fantasies, it’s people we already know. A best friend, a trusted coworker, a childhood friend, maybe even a sibling. In reality, it’s not that easy. This is especially true if you identify as straight in your public life.To be perfectly clear, there is nothing “gay” about masturbating with another girl (and besides, gay is beautiful and I strongly encourage heteroflexability and experimentation with all genders).  Anyway, my point is most of us project as straight, non-gooning individuals, and approaching someone who knows you that way will likely be confused and turned off by your proposal to strip naked and masturbate together.

It's hard to admit to people you know that you're a social masturbator.

Maybe if you’ve always been particularly open about your sexuality you might have some luck with this, but most of us will not. That leaves your online network. If you’re lucky, you will have an online goon-partner you trust who is reasonably local. She may be in a similar situation as you, where her goonette identity is still closeted.

Meeting in a public location is a great way to see if she would make a good partner.

Propose a public meet-up (coffee shop, restaurant, outdoor market, etc.) and see if you get along. You don’t have to be best friends, but you should feel comfortable and not get any bad or weird vibes. Also, don’t feel like you need to be attracted to her. Your mutual interest is porn, not each other. It’s not about sexuality, it’s about self-gratification through social masturbation. The ultimate goal of your meet-up is to determine if you feel safe and comfortable with this person, because if all goes according to plan, you will be alone with them, naked, sharing porn and masturbating together. Make sure you are both safe in that situation.

GOONING OUT

It might feel awkward or embarrassing at first, but let the porn do its thing. You will settle in before you know it.

Once you decide your chosen partner is trustworthy, what happens when you are together for your first goon session is up to you. Ground rules are a great idea, especially if things like touching or alcohol/drugs are out of the question. If you both live normie lives, you may be meeting at a hotel room or other 3rd party location. Make sure you have your cover stories straight and be willing to cover for each other, if, say, a husband or boyfriend calls. Make sure you both know how long your session will last and plan accordingly. Some things to consider are how you will share and display porn, what toys are allowed, which toys can be shared, when you will both undress, if conversation is allowed, if touching is allowed, what happens when the first one cums, who controls the porn playlist, and how you will wind-down/end the session. Proper preparation will go a long way in making sure your social goon session maximizes pleasure and fun while minimizing potentially uncomfortable or embarrassing situations. The more fun you both have, the more likely you are to do it again!

PARTY OF THREE (OR MORE!)

Live the dream!

Once you’ve had a few encounters with other goonettes, consider having a goon-party with several other girls. Start by inviting any eligible girls to a non-sexual public meet-up like before to make sure everyone is on the same page and the chemistry is manageable. Pound out the rules of the party and goon away! Keep growing your network, and who knows, maybe that normie friend you had your eye on will wonder what’s up with that new group of friends of yours. Whether you let her in on the fun is up to you. :)